In this case, my older sibling was definitely the more live and let live type. She doesn't stress about the small things the way I do. [Kate's always been very different from her sister, but they took after different parents. That would do it.] She's more like my dad, and my mom ... well, she was a different kind of hero. We just have very different priorities, but thankfully, mine are easier to do with things going my way all the time. [That much is something Kate can admit. She enjoys the privilege.]