[ ..............................god the people who can just say what they feel like that are kind of amazing, annie has to stare at aracely for a moment when struck by that. it's just...

... something she respects, most the time. now is part of that most the time. ]

Then yes... he should feel flattered. You care enough to do what you're doing out of the way you feel for him, and you're giving him options right from the start.