But if you get hurt and don't succeed, then you'll likely be like me.

[However, she does know Jaime's personality. He may be easygoing about most things, but the safety of people he cares about has never fallen into that category. Even when he was locked in a cage as a prisoner on the moon, he had told her to get away from there, to keep from danger.

...And she remembers, also, that she had agreed. That she'd left him there. Because, rationally, there was nothing at that time she could do that could help him. She can't connect to what she felt then, but that doesn't matter. The fact of the matter was: she had agreed, and left to seek another method.]

You need to know exactly what it is you'll be fighting. At least don't leave until I explain.