Finn really can't relate. Not because he hadn't known his own family but because he hadn't really lost anyone too close to him since arriving here. Poe and Rey had each left for a small amount of time but they came back... He tries to imagine a world where they didn't come back and has a difficult time doing it. Maybe the closest idea he has is of Slip and- Ugh.

He does get needing outlets because of grief, though. "Being rebellious a little isn't always a bad thing. It's all right if you enjoyed some of your time with them, but if it's bothering you so much, you don't have to keep doing it. You just need to find something else. Some other outlets that's... you know, legal..."

Finn's quiet for a beat. "You ever tried kickboxing?"